Rainbow Guru: I have recently began to have a huge crush on my uncle, please suggest what to do

Hello Sushant,
I have recently began to have a huge crush on my uncle; he has been giving me hints too. I’m not sure what to do — one part of me says this is not appropriate; and the other part is very lusty and says I should explore what can happen with him. He is not much older than me, unlike my other uncles, and is very attractive!
Please suggest what to do.
– A Family Guy

Hi Family Guy,
I’m perplexed and sort of disturbed by your question, to be honest! I genuinely don’t know what your self-talk is at this point, but have you heard of ‘incest’? You are currently experiencing incestuous thoughts and your feelings towards your uncle are nowhere close to healthy, whatever his age may be!

You need to nip this in the bud. This infatuation could land you and your uncle in a lot of trouble; and more than anything else, it’s just going to be super weird! It can’t be a one-time fling where you have low chances of ever meeting the person again. You are inevitably going to have to face each other more often than you think and it’s sure to get complicated.

So I’m really siding with the part of you that says this is inappropriate! And I’m sure the lusty part of you has other means of cooling off! I mean, come (pun intended) on!

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