10 things that happen when you turn 30

While you are in your early twenties, it is usually spent figuring out what your want from life. And by the time you are in your late twenties, you realise that life is changing pretty fast. If you are on the threshold of turning 30 very soon, then these are ten things you must know by now about an age that is often called official adulthood.
No one gives a damn
You heard it right! Although most of our decisions are influenced and affected by log kya kahenge, but little do we know that people don’t really care about the happenings in our life.Everyone has their own problems to deal with and no one really has the time to bother about others.
You are responsible for your actions
While on your way to turning 30, you must realise that you have to take ownership of your actions. Counsellor Pooja Chandra, says, “Be it something that you are proud of or something that has gone wrong, you must make sure to own up to everything you’ve done, so that you are entitled to both — the benefits as well as the flak.”
Only travel can unleash your mind

Nothing else can liberate you more than travelling. So make it your to-do thing as you turn 30, and make sure to visit at least one new place every year. Says Travel blogger Sanchita Barua, “It will make you a better person. Meeting new people, exploring the other side of life and dealing with new situations on your own, will give valuable insights and life lessons that cannot be learnt by spending in front of the computer.”
Some things are not in your control
You must realise that not everyone in the world is here to please you and vice versa. You might try to change things for better, but after a certain number of tries, you have to understand that some things are not under your control. Trying to alter it will only make things worse.
Love will happen, at the right time
If you’re single, you may find yourself being hounded for not being hitched yet. Marriage counsellor and advocate Sadhana Patil, however, has a word of advice. “Never force yourself into a relationship, for others. Love will happen, but it will take its own course; don’t settle for anything less than what you deserve, only because you are turning 30.”
Don’t compromise on your happiness
You have all the right to be happy, so make sure to never compromise on it. Do everything that makes you happy — be it a hobby, meeting friends, travelling, reading or helping others. Chandra adds, “Do not be a pleaser, who always thinks about other people’s happiness. Please yourself because ‘a happy you, can only make a happy we’.” Most importantly, do not depend on anyone else for your happiness.
Never lose your individuality
Be it among friends, family or your partner; never give up on your individuality. Learn to respect yourself, only then will other people do the same. Respect your desires and needs when it comes to relationships, this will only help you be a better person.
You must learn to ignore
Another important thing to bear in mind, at this age, is to learn to ignore. There are certain things and people in life that don’t hold any significance whatsoever, thinking about them will only add to the discontent and make things worse. Ignorance is bliss, and you must learn to experience it by yourself.
It’s okay to give up
You must know that everything in life does not guarantee sure-shot success. Clinical psychologist Prateeksha Marandi, says, “You must be open to failure and there is absolutely nothing wrong in giving up. Never force yourself to outperform, as this would only lead to saturation — be it at work or your relationships. It’s okay to give up, for inner peace.”
Do what you think is right
This is the time when you must take control of your life — do not depend on anyone’s approval for things that matter to you. Consult your inner self and do things as per your discretion. Be prepared for the repercussions and do not fear failure, when taking the right decision. Your version of right, may be someone else’s wrong, but it doesn’t matter as long as you are at peace with it.