"There, that's my Instagram story!" says Honey as she blows a kiss to her one million followers before posting as she puts down her whip and iPhone. "You're literally going to be a fly on the wall, I mean we got really lucky with this couple being exhibitionists wanting to check 3 things off their fetish bucket list with this one visit!" Honey, whose name has been changed to protect her identity, is a connoisseur of fetishes who makes house calls to educate those intrigued by a variety of things they want to try but obviously need help executing. "My clients last week wanted to try bondage, I was like whoa little philly, that's one of those fetishes that takes time, you don't want to rush into that one! This isn't like porn, this is real life and if you don't take the time to do it right, the receiver, in this case her husband, isn't going to want to do it ever again!" says Honey emphatically pointing out that this is so both people are satiated in their fetish of choice and not only benefiting one of them.
Honey started her fetish house call business 4 years ago as her time in porn was short lived. "I answered an open call for hot girls and did one short movie and some online stuff but I was sort of awkward you know? I had watched a lot of porn and had a lot of sex so I thought I got this! But I didn't realize that everything is at an angle, the lighting has to be just right and everything is about getting that money shot. SO many people watch this stuff and think they can just jump into anal and it's going to be great the first time because the movie they're watching tells them so! NO, it's not and that's where I come in!"
Honey say's that she stayed in porn doing a variety of jobs while she put herself through college majoring in Psychology and plans to continue her studies to get certified as a Sex Therapist. "You'd be surprised to find out what makes people want to try certain things, it could have been something so minute that triggers a desire" she says. Having worked in an adult 24 hour store during her last year of school for research, she thought what a great onsite tutorial service on a variety of fetishes this would be. Providing to the everyday consumer who could afford her sessions as she often wondered if the patrons of the shop actually knew what to do with their purchases once they got them home. "It was simple, I created a website with my available dates and times and a menu of fetishes that once added to the cart they could pay through PayPal. It's all very discreet" says Honey.
Honey charges $1k an hour with a session lasting no longer than 3 hours and is scheduled so far in advance that she won't fly home to see her parents until Thanksgiving. "I'm booked solid every day of the week with my tutorials!" says Honey who doesn't mind how busy she is as this is where her passion lies. "Sex and money, literally a win win!" she says adding that her weekly income is just shy of $15k.
Honey doesn't see herself as a prostitute as she is not providing sex she says and she is only providing the tools and skillset for a better form of intimacy between 2 people. "This isn't rocket science and no two people are alike. This is all about listening and customizing whatever fetish you're into to suit you and your partner."
I wonder if Honey has a partner of her own and she says no that the time will come when she will open herself up to one day, but not now. I ask if she has ever dated anyone of her students and she says she never mixes business with pleasure.
As we enter her session with the Exhibitionist couple I am reminded that I am a mere fly on the wall and I must make myself invisible as they want to know I'm there but do not want to acknowledge me. Watching Honey lay her props out on the dresser for her patrons to select which to learn how to use first, she lifts her index finger to her mouth, turns to me and says "Shhhhh" and she winks an eye at me. I promise Honey I won't make a sound, this fly intends on learning something.
