JUNE Steenkamp sees feathers everywhere — and believes they are a sign that her daughter, Reeva, who was shot dead by Paralympian Oscar Pistorius, is looking over her.
“Reeva had a thing about feathers; she loved their delicacy and beauty. I started to notice little white feathers and I’d think, ‘she’s here’. I’m sure there are lots of things you cling to in grief, as signs that the person you have lost has not really gone away, and it makes me feel better to believe that her spirit is still with us.”
June, 68, originally from Blackburn, in Lancashire, England, and her husband Barry are still coming to terms with the loss of their beloved daughter, who was 29 when she was shot.
Pistorius, then 26, is serving five years for his crime, following a highly publicised, televised, seven-month trial.
They had been South Africa’s golden couple — she a model on the brink of a lucrative TV career, he the double amputee Olympic and Paralympic hero known as the “Blade Runner”.
But June says she knew matters weren’t right in the couple’s three-month relationship; she sensed Reeva was looking for an out.
Charged with murder after he opened fire through the locked toilet door of his Pretoria apartment,where Reeva was cowering, Pistorius claimed he mistook his girlfriend for an intruder.
He was acquitted of murder, but convicted of the lesser crime of culpable homicide, the South African equivalent of manslaughter, and, despite his five-year sentence, according to legal experts he could be released under supervision after 10 months.
This month, state prosecutors won the right to appeal the culpable homicide.
They are seeking a murder conviction, and the case will now go before South Africa’s Supreme Court of Appeal.
They lost their application to challenge the five-year sentence.
They have argued that Judge Thokozile Masipa misinterpreted the law when she ruled that Pistorius did not intentionally shoot Ms Steenkamp.
Meanwhile, June and Barry, a horse trainer, are serving their own life sentence, without their daughter.
June has now written her version of events, in her book, Reeva: A Mother’s Story, which charts the story of Reeva’s life, her untimely death, the trial, and everything that followed.
Speaking from her home in Port Elizabeth, June says the last few weeks have been the most difficult.
“I’ve come out the other side, but it’s hurting me now more than it did right at the beginning. We never had time to grieve. It’s crystal clear, now, that I have to make my life without her.”
Their house is like a shrine, she says.
“Reeva’s possessions are all over the place. I wear one of her jackets all of the time. It’s like having her around me.
“I gave her a bracelet, with a brass horse on, and she loved it. I wear that often. It reminds me that she’s still around.
“I have all her books in my bedroom,” she says.
“I have her white linen on the bed. It’s a comfort to know she once slept in it, and that, somehow, her essence must still be there.”
She even sprays herself with Reeva’s Narciso Rodriguez perfume, to drink in her presence.
June says that, during the trial, she and Barry were given a room to go to during the short adjournments, and, one day, she found a scattering of white feathers under the open window there.
“A white dove came and sat on the windowsill. It was breathtaking. I felt it had flown there just for us; it was a sign from Reeva and I took a photograph of it to keep,” she writes.
“When we left court that day, the dove was still sitting there peacefully.”
The first time June saw Pistorius was in court, where she remained silent and stoney-faced. She says she has forgiven him, but she doesn’t believe his story, and would like to meet him.
“I don’t quite know what I’m going to say, but I think it’s only fair that he has to face Barry and I, because he’s taken a life away from us. He has to have that in his face — we won’t have her grandchildren, or her wedding. He’s taken so much. He’s robbed us of our lives.”
They haven’t yet made requests to see him in prison, but she is hopeful it will happen.
Since the trial, she says she hasn’t been coping well.
“I’ve become a bit of a recluse. I have the bar — she and Barry run a pub, The Barking Spider — but my husband’s been doing that work for me. He’s been very supportive, but it’s not easy. There is constant pain,” June says.
They don’t want to do anything at Christmas, she says; since Reeva has been gone, there’s no joy for them during the festive season.
Indeed, the year before she died, Reeva spent Christmas night with her boyfriend in Pretoria — the first time she’d ever spent it away from home.
Instead, June is focusing her energies on starting up the Reeva Foundation, a women’s shelter for victims of domestic violence and abuse.
“I’m keeping quite busy. There doesn’t seem to be enough hours in the day and that helps. I definitely could not have got through it without Barry.”
Controversially, it was revealed that the Steenkamps had received monthly payments of £345 from Pistorius, from March of 2013 until the end of the trial, which went towards rent and living expenses, but June says they’re determined to pay it all back; revenue from the book and paid interviews will help do so.
She says she and her husband, who went bankrupt several years ago, would not have been able to see the trial through had it not been for those payments.
“We didn’t want to receive it, but we didn’t have any choice. We were bankrupt. We had no money. We were struggling to get from day to day. It was a temporary thing and all the money is going back to him. We are paying every cent back.
Today, she is recognised in her local town wherever she goes. “Especially in Woolworths,” she says warmly. “I can’t get away without about 20 hugs and kisses when I go there.
“Some women come up and just cry. They feel so sorry for me. They’ve got daughters and don’t know what it would be like if they lost one.”